Believe me, LOVE is SELFISH.

But then again, being ready to commit is another thing (so I get you).
You’ll know it when you’re ready. You’ll wake up one day and feel something inside you has changed.
It’s when hook-ups is a tiring thing to do already, or when every woman you meet are the same in your eyes. Its when hard-drinking nights with loud friends seem old-fashioned, and long walks or long talks  with somebody becomes more interesting.

And I do hope that when that time comes,
she’ s still there because if she isn’t, and you still “love” her, that will be the greatest regret  you’ll have in your life.

That’s how this works mate. There’s no gray part, only black and white. Its either
you win or you lose.